Although he grumbled about the planting and watering and weeding, my dad always love helping my mom plant flowers in the Spring. So today I found a beautiful hydrangea to put on his grave this weekend. Of course, mine won't be the only one, so Mom and my sisters and I will probably share ours with someone else who doesn't have anyone to leave flowers on their headstones. It's just the way things are done.
As in years past, we'll tell stories and laugh and cry and my mom will visit the graves of too many of her friends. But always knowing they'll meet again.